Japayuki (a Single Mom)

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aimee 07-09-25 (Tue) 21:26

being japayuki is not bad..
not all of them are looking for money,
intead they are looking for a true love..

nobya 07-09-26 (Wed) 8:57

It’s depend on her character and her situation ka na???

amie 07-11-28 (Wed) 4:52

hmmm.. yes its true (^_^)

mdsuave 08-08-28 (Thu) 0:26

Japayuki or Japayuki-san are foreign prostitutes in Japan.
It comes from the word Karayuki. From the Edo Period to
the end of WW2 when Japan was poor, there were many
Japanese women who were “going = yuki” mainly for
prostitution in foreign land in particular southeast
Asia which was a land of “Chinese influence = Kara”,
and they were called Karayuki/Karayuki-san.

by Uco

Go to this link:
http://www.japan-guide.com/forum/quereadisplay.html?0+4773

Amie 08-08-28 (Thu) 0:36

hello..
thank you for nice information, i really do appreciate it..
take care always po..

mdsuave 08-08-28 (Thu) 10:25

My intention is good. I want to change the mistaken thought that the word Japayuki is good. In Japan, they call you that name because they want to humiliate or embarrass you. At home, they call you that because they don’t know the meaning of it and accept it because it is a good sounding word. I think you are better than a Japayuki. Say no when they call you that word. Say proudly, I am a singer or a dancer.

Amie 08-08-29 (Fri) 1:25

hello..
i know you are thinking about filipina’s image in Japan..
Japayuki is not the perfect word for hard working filipina
in japan.. Not all of them are prostitute because most filipina
are easy to fall inlove and give joy to their loved ones..
I wanna thank you for being concern.. thank you very much..

Andy 08-08-29 (Fri) 4:32

Many women are in this position especially filipina,s who have children and the fathers disappear. or they break up. most pinays want the best for their family and will do what they have to to keep food on he table and clothes on their backs. you are a hard working nation of women who when you find a man to settle down with you are loyal, sincere, loving, kind, caring and much more. myself i respect pinays for everything they are.
warmest regards
Andy (England)

Anton Sento 08-10-09 (Thu) 5:50

I know not all japayukis are bad persons but I know of a terrible japauki. I had a girlfriend who, without my knowledge, took my money to go to Japan and be a Japayuki. She told me she just needed to go to another place to find a job and “stand on her own” (she couldn’t find a job in the Philippines). When she arrived in Japan she told me through a telephone conversation that she used my money, I forgave her. I even provided for her family while she was in Japan, she said she’d pay me back once she’s earned enough. I didn’t know that she was a prostitute in Japan. She had several Japanese boyfriends who were giving her material things like monetary allowance, digicams, cellphones, etc. When she went back to the Philippines after six months (having all the money she has from prostituting) she broke up with me and then she told me about what she did in Japan. She didn’t even bother to pay me back everything that she owed me, from the her travel expenses to Japan and the financial support I’ve been giving her family. Her money eventually ran out, but she can’t go back to Japan because her Japanese “boyfriends” are looking for her because of the money and things that she also took from them. Now she has a live-in partner (whom she houses in her family’s home) and has a child out of wedlock and is constantly bugging me, trying to reconnect with me. Hope other japayukis do not follow this bad example.

Amie 08-10-13 (Mon) 16:34

wow! thank you very much for such a wonderful comment..
thank you and take care always..

ottoguy 08-10-31 (Fri) 17:23

I am a married guy. I met this former “entertainer” at a local club here in Caloocan. The first time I saw her I was instantly attracted to her. She is definitely not an ideal woman, she drinks heavily and smokes a lot. I am not attracted to women of these types. However, it feels different with her. I feel that I am willing to accept her no matter what and regardless of the consequences. In fact, I want to have a child with her. Although, I have this suspicion that the club owner has hidden desires towards her since he was a former suitor (who is also married), but this is not confirmed yet. I want to help her go back to school or help her find a more decent and less stressful job. However, she has this belief that she will be able to raise a lot money by working as a waitress/g.r.o. I do not know what I have seen in her. I always request for her whenever I am at their club. There were times that she was totally drunk and could no longer drink her lady’s drink but kept on ordering. I still take it because I want her to earn. Is this simple lust, infatuation, or what? I can’t get her off my mind. I feel guilty because whenever I am with my wife, I always think about her. I can no longer concentrate in my work. I can hardly believe that she had not sex with any japanese guy in the 18 months that she has been in Japan. I try to believe her but sometimes my mind tells me otherwise. She is also a single mom. She was impregnated by a pinoy, whom she had a brief relationship with. She keeps telling me that it is her dream to get married, thus she cannot have relationship with a married man, and for that I truly admire her. I do not want to be selfish, but I just want to love her and take care of her all the way. Its just I cannot stomach watching her being with other guests while they make advances to her. She knows how to cover her breasts whenever a guest would attempt to touch it. I have not attempted to touch nor hold her hand eversince I met her. Instead, she would hold my hand whenever I am around. I am so happy that she kissed me on the cheek on the eve of my birthday. I just want to get this off my chest…I am falling for this girl. It looks very wrong but it feels so right.

amie 08-11-07 (Fri) 1:57

Im so sorry for late reply Mr. Ottoguy
How are you now? I hope you are always fine..
While i am reading your sad story, i can feel that you
are deeply inlove.. Very nice to hear that you give respect
and caring to this filipina girl.. Maybe this girl loves you but as you
said you’re already married.. I don’t know this girl but still i am thankful
to you for trusting her and loving her.. I admire you not for being paro paro.. But i admire you Because “you know what’s your limitations to her and to yourself”.. Keep smiling and May God Bless you, Her and to your family.. Thank you for posting comment, again sorry for my late reply.. take care

Anonymous 08-11-14 (Fri) 18:22

yeah, you’re right. we can’t judge anybody through his or her past deeds. i am not gonna comment more about being a japayuki or what. What caught my attention was this lines …

“But however, Many filipina are trying to find their luck in abroad. Some of them are OFW’s and many of them are Japayuki. Am I right?”

I think you’re wrong.The mere fact that they are working abroad, they are already called OFW.

Not many filipina working abroad are japayuki. You said many of them are japayuki! hey, come on girl!! there are more filipina nurses, domestic helpers, nannies and caregivers. I think nurses outnumbered the numbers of entertainers!!

rim 08-11-14 (Fri) 18:24

hello!! japan lang lng ba ang pinupuntahan ng mga pinay! wow!!!

amie 08-11-15 (Sat) 23:03

to you anonymous,

yeah right.. happy now?

amie 08-11-15 (Sat) 23:06

hello rim
not all of them!..
thanks for visitng take care