2009-10-23

Relationships often fail because we don’t understand them right? But there are some reasons why, all of us are not perfect but the most important is we should learn how to accept our mistakes and try to work relationship out again and again “if” you really love each other..

Here are the top five reasons why relationships fail…

1) Selfishness – Relationships are about you and your partner, not you or your partner. When it comes into making a right decision you should talk about it first and never make it on your own that is relationship. you’re not going to agree on everything, but you both have to learn to compromise if you want to build a successful relationship.

2) Dishonesty – Whether you’re hiding a dark secret from your partner, telling little “white lies” or being untrue to your feelings, dishonesty hurts relationships.

3) Superiority – both partners should have an equal say.

4) Being Critical – Highlighting flaws in your partner’s character,Being critical in a public place to the point that your partner is humiliated is even worse. Learn to bite your tongue and adopt a more sympathetic approach if you want to avoid a relationship breakdown. You should also learn to apologize if you catch yourself being critical in an unacceptable way!

5) Abuse – Abuse does not just mean physical violence or extreme mental insult, it also includes mild forms of abuse that happen every day, such as put-downs, sarcastic comments, issuing threats or purposefully withholding affection. Never taka advantage those people who really loves you.

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